I was casually talking to a friend regarding wedding preparation last night, untill we bumped into the topic of Bridal Shower. As I look at some pictures from previous brides, I find it terrifyingly horrible, if there's such a term, to see such behaviors from the party. And as my friend would describe it... "It's weird. It was like they're all focused on sex." and I couldn't agree more. I know, someday, she'll be on the same path I'm headed right now, I blurted out: "Marriage is not your ticket to pornography - and it will never will."
It was a big question for me to have such a 'celebration'. It makes me wonder what are we really celebrating about? That after a life of chastity, you are 'excused' to do such things because you're a bride? Girls, I think we are crossing the line here. And what was surprising is that we are claiming that we are 'Christians', after having such a party? We are proud to post pictures and 'fun times' we had during the event? It doesnt feel right, right? If Jesus was invited, will He go with the party?
I remember my Sunday School teacher once told me, " If you can't do it in the Church, or in front of your parents, then don't do it." Are we comfortable having sex videos playing in the church? Can we wear that mask that looks like a man's member and sit in the pews to pray? Looks weird right?
I remember my Sunday School teacher once told me, " If you can't do it in the Church, or in front of your parents, then don't do it." Are we comfortable having sex videos playing in the church? Can we wear that mask that looks like a man's member and sit in the pews to pray? Looks weird right?
Ephesians 5:1-6 says:
1 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. 3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. 4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.
6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them.
So Girls, if ever you're planning any bridal shower (i would appreciate it if it's for me), make sure that you're still honoring God in the midst of the celebration. Good food and wholesome talks would be nice. And prayers are very very much welcome. Same goes for the grooms' men party - whatever you call that.
1 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. 3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. 4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.
6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them.
So Girls, if ever you're planning any bridal shower (i would appreciate it if it's for me), make sure that you're still honoring God in the midst of the celebration. Good food and wholesome talks would be nice. And prayers are very very much welcome. Same goes for the grooms' men party - whatever you call that.
For me, I'd rather have no bridal shower than dishonor God with unpleasant party focused on sex.
Have a great day everyone!
Much love and kisses,
Kitteh
